The Power Beneath the Skin

Sex Therapy

For those ready to explore desire as a language of truth.

Sexuality is never just about sex. It’s about permission. Power. Presence. It’s about how we reveal ourselves and how we ask to be held. In my work with clients, we explore intimacy as a mirror for the psyche—an invitation to understand what lives beneath the surface of attraction, conflict, arousal, and avoidance.

I specialize in the intersection of BDSM and depth psychology—what I call BDSM Psychology—a practice that honors the unconscious dynamics playing out in your intimate life and brings them into conscious, consent-based form. Together, we explore how power, dominance, submission, longing, and protection show up in your relationships—whether casual, romantic, monogamous, or polyamorous.

Sometimes, what appears as emotional chaos is actually an unspoken power exchange. Sometimes, a dynamic isn’t working not because it’s too much, but because it hasn’t been named.

In particular, I work with clients—often men—who identify as gentle, protective, or caretaker types and find themselves partnered with emotionally intense, defiant, or boundary-testing lovers. Rather than collapse or retreat, I support these clients in reclaiming their inner authority, exploring how to offer structure, containment, and erotic steadiness—without shame, fear, or force.

We begin with safety, language, and nervous system awareness. From there, we may explore:

• Consent and unconscious power dynamics

• Erotic identity and personal archetypes

• Healing from shame and sexual repression

• Playing with structure, surrender, and sacred control

• Integrating kink into a relational, loving life

• Cultivating the capacity to lead, guide, or receive

This is not about performance. This is about attunement. Erotic clarity. Knowing your turn-ons as maps, not problems. And reclaiming the parts of you that long to give or receive in ways the world may have never fully seen.